My Reflections , My insights

  Beta, all will be Well     Chinmay, “wake up”, “wake up” it’s already 9 O’clock, I could hear his Mom in her loud voice.   Chinmay, my Son, who was sleeping like a log, without seeing her, fluttered his blanket and covered his face and sleep more comfortably knowing that if Mom is saying nine means, it would somewhere around 8 or 830, and this is his 1 st wakeup call.   And this was a scene in our house for 2-3 months after the XIIth Board Exams, when my son was waiting for his results and college admissions.( 3years ago 2017-18)  Anxiety and Anxiousness were at its peak.   We were feeling like we are strapped in a chair, sitting in front of an open door. But we knew the situation, so we use to HUG him and say “Beta, all will be well “- Believe in Yourself. “                One day he shouted with excitement from his room, “Papa ”, “Mom”!!! , we rushed to his room , and our h...

  #Choose to Aspire and Challenge Status Quo “   Science behind Women in Leadership – Formula Decoded"   We have been talking and discussing about the Women in leadership roles . I have several women colleagues and friends in leadership Roles . I tried to understand what’s different they are doing to be their . And what other Women who are aspiring needs to do . Its nothing that anyone is lacking anything . Its just more Awareness , litter push is needed . Over a decade things are changing in this area , atleast some attitude change is seen in men and specifically in corporate world where both men /Women jointly coming forward to support the cause of more participation and involvement of Women in leadership Roles . I see in lot of NGOs , Educational Clubs ( Toastmasters , Rotary , etc   )   , Service Orgs  have  good participation , that’s needs to brought forward to corporate and Government Sectors . I am seeing the positive side as what has h...

  Daily D.O.S.E  of Happiness  Have we ever analysed why the boat or ship gets drowned in the water,   is it because of the water outside the boat, which is, in abundance?   OR   it is because of the water which has gone inside the boat, which topples the boat? I guess you know the answer.        If we compare the boat situation to our lives, we have a captivating outcome. There are a lot of things outside which pollutes our mind , like dreadful news, melodramatic serials, unwanted/ Stressful /Heated   discussions, rumours, etc . This all leads us to stress, anxiety & depression and it culminates to boat situation.  I t’s not what is happening outside, it is what we have taken inside and what we have done with it.     It’s in our hand How to be Happy, I will be sharing you the DOSE   how you can be happy as i t backed by Scientific research, I urge you all     to follow ...

  Building Relationships                    When we think of building relationships, we have to think about a long-term relationship, which will only lead to building your network and strengthening your Relations.                What can be done , if you are not already doing, is to start eating family dinner or lunch daily or as many times as possible. OR if you are in Office pick up some colleague and eat with them, make sure you Never Eat Alone.   With this   perspective and trigger, your mindset will change and will give a boost to your relationships.     As you might have heard an African proverb, " If you want to go fast go Alone, while if you want to GO far Go together " No one alone can do great things we need teams, people, and that's why Never eat alone, Increase your Network. Why because as sai...

  Chalna Humara Kaam Hai …   Enjoy the Journey whatever you choose , It should not happen when you reach summit  you don’t Enjoy the same and get dissatisfied . Like a mountaineer he climbed mount Everest and wanted to enjoy summit  and take pictures but Sherpa asked him to leave ASAP because of weather . So he could not Enjoy the summit  . A very Beautiful Poem by our Eminent Poet Shiv Mangal Singh Suman depicts the theme in Hindi . गति प्रबल पैरों में भरी फिर क्यों रहूँ दर दर खड़ा जब आज मेरे सामने है रास्ता इतना पड़ा जब तक न मंज़िल पा सकूँ , तब तक मुझे न विराम है , चलना हमारा काम है।   कुछ कह लिया , कुछ सुन लिया कुछ बोझ अपना बँट गया अच्छा हुआ , तुम मिल गईं कुछ रास्ता ही कट गया क्या राह में परिचय कहूँ , राही हमारा नाम है , चलना हमारा काम है।   जीवन अपूर्ण लिए हुए पाता कभी खोता कभी आशा निराशा से घिरा , हँसता कभी रोता कभी गति - मति न हो अवरुद्ध , ...