#16 : Don't Change, Transform

 

Don't Change, Transform

We all talk about transformation in our lives; the question comes how do you know transformation has taken place?  We don't want to change we want to transform.

Transformation is nothing but shifting your default status, Like earlier if you were saying NO when something was asked to you, and now you think before you reply for a larger cause, this is transformation.

  Like you now respond instead you react, this is transformation. There is a difference between your reaction and response. You react instantaneously but respond with a pause.

·       Now you feel good/happy about someone else growing. If someone if is progressing in Life or area, you genuinely pleased about him or her. It is a transformation .

·       You feel happy about sharing knowledge. Wisdom and enable others to achieve their goal. You share knowledge without being jealous.

·       You become non-judgemental. You stop judging people and take them with a face value, don't add your perception, bias meaning to it.  

·       You think WIN-WIN . Think about others as well, you are happy about others to win, and you become part of their wining movement and help them.

·       You try to put in other person shoes and be empathetic. Become Emotionally Intelligent.

·       You started seeing the larger picture, seeing of all-inclusive growth, Grow together

 You may not be 100% in all of these, but if you start scoring more from your last time and evolving, getting more you are transforming, you are becoming Emotionally Strong. Start taking small steps. You will transform, you will be different YOU for better. You will be a better version of yourself.

 


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